American - Novelist | November 11, 1954 -
People sometimes turn out to be almost the opposite of how they present. It isn't because they're trying to fool you or because they're hypocrites. It's because they badly want to be that thing, and so they'll try to be it.
Mary Gaitskill
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When looking out the window and watching the water becomes a drama, then literally everything is a drama.
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I think a lot of writing, or a lot of young writers, especially, hold themselves back unnecessarily because they're so upset about the idea that they might be sentimental or so concerned about being criticized that way or even being that way that they just shy away from any strong expression or emotion.
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I used to start at about 10 at night and work until early morning. My preferred way to work is to start in the early afternoon and work until about 3, go do errands, have dinner, and then write for a few more hours in the evening.
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Sometimes I decide I don't want to write because it isn't the thing for me to be doing right then, and I go do something else.
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Writing requires an intense inner focus, and sometimes you need to express outward, physically or socially.
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I think it actually started in my late thirties. I started changing psychologically, and it was difficult to translate that into my writing.
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I didn't want to keep forcing myself to grind out book after book.
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If anything is scary about my writing, it's that it's the product of a very particular vision and doesn't reference common speech that heavily. By 'common speech,' I don't mean language as much as an agreed-on way of seeing, or a shorthand.
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I remember back in the '90s, I used to feel criticized by women for not having children. Like there must be something wrong with me.
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I've noticed women my age and a little younger, anywhere from 35 to 50, saying, 'Who would want to bring kids into a world like this?' Or, 'I don't want to spend my life that way. I want to do my artwork.' And they're very unapologetically stating this.
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Somebody once said to me, 'If you want to be understood, don't write fiction.'
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